I was reading on article in a certain local urban entertainment magz.  This particular article was saying, if a person cheats on another in a relationship, that it is good for the relationship.  It seems to me as if the writer was trying to give some type of positive affirmation for something that they know is wrong, speaking from experience, when one partner goes a stray & the other finds out, nothing good can come out of it.

      Maybe in movies, but in reality the trust is gone & without trust the relationship is doomed.   Every time that person walks out the door, there is always going to be doubt as to where they are going, who they are going with and are they lying to you or not.  One partner may be able to accept it and continue to remain in the relationship, but I can say with the ut most certainly that things will never be the same.